{"id":833,"date":"2017-09-07T17:41:46","date_gmt":"2017-09-07T16:41:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/skro.hellabeth.com\/?p=833"},"modified":"2017-09-07T17:41:48","modified_gmt":"2017-09-07T16:41:48","slug":"aux-cathos-vous-netes-vraisemblablement-pas-demisexuels","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/skro.hellabeth.com\/?p=833","title":{"rendered":"Aux cathos: vous n&rsquo;\u00eates (vraisemblablement) pas demisexuels"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>C&rsquo;est le nouveau concept \u00e0 la mode sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux depuis un article dans un magazine f\u00e9minin: la \u00ab\u00a0demisexualit\u00e9\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Et, mal comprise par certains (en particulier dans le milieu catholique qui pr\u00f4ne la stabilit\u00e9 affective et la monogamie), le terme a pris la connotation de \u00ab\u00a0personne qui sait se tenir en ne sautant pas sur tout ce qui bouge\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Sauf que ce n&rsquo;est pas \u00e7a du tout. Quand on parle de sexualit\u00e9s<span class=\"footnote_referrer\"><a role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" onclick=\"footnote_moveToReference_833_1('footnote_plugin_reference_833_1_1');\" onkeypress=\"footnote_moveToReference_833_1('footnote_plugin_reference_833_1_1');\" ><sup id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_833_1_1\" class=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text\">[1]<\/sup><\/a><span id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_833_1_1\" class=\"footnote_tooltip\">oui, le pluriel est signifiant, \u00e7a s&rsquo;applique aussi bien \u00e0 l&rsquo;heterosexualit\u00e9 qu&rsquo;\u00e0 l&rsquo;homosexualit\u00e9, la sapiosexualit\u00e9, l&rsquo;asexualit\u00e9 ou whatever&#8230;<\/span><\/span><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> jQuery('#footnote_plugin_tooltip_833_1_1').tooltip({ tip: '#footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_833_1_1', tipClass: 'footnote_tooltip', effect: 'fade', predelay: 0, fadeInSpeed: 200, delay: 400, fadeOutSpeed: 200, position: 'top center', relative: true, offset: [-7, 0], });<\/script>, on ne parle pas tant d&rsquo;actes que de tendances, d&rsquo;inclinations ou de pulsions. Et par dessus cela se greffe la volont\u00e9, qui permet de choisir, de refouler et\/ou de lutter contre ces inclinations, tendances et pulsions.<\/p>\n<p>Or donc, qu&rsquo;est-ce que la demisexualit\u00e9? Il s&rsquo;agit d&rsquo;une tendance \u00e0 ne ressentir de d\u00e9sir sexuel qu&rsquo;envers les personnes dont on est proche \u00e9motionnellement. En gros, une personne que Sean Connery ou Nicole Kidman<span class=\"footnote_referrer\"><a role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" onclick=\"footnote_moveToReference_833_1('footnote_plugin_reference_833_1_2');\" onkeypress=\"footnote_moveToReference_833_1('footnote_plugin_reference_833_1_2');\" ><sup id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_833_1_2\" class=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text\">[2]<\/sup><\/a><span id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_833_1_2\" class=\"footnote_tooltip\">remplacez ces noms par vos fantasmes inavou\u00e9s \u00e0 titre d&rsquo;exercice<\/span><\/span><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> jQuery('#footnote_plugin_tooltip_833_1_2').tooltip({ tip: '#footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_833_1_2', tipClass: 'footnote_tooltip', effect: 'fade', predelay: 0, fadeInSpeed: 200, delay: 400, fadeOutSpeed: 200, position: 'top center', relative: true, offset: [-7, 0], });<\/script> laisseraient parfaitement froids m\u00eame s&rsquo;ils se jetaient \u00e0 leur cou \u00e0 l&rsquo;improviste, mais qui fantasme sur son meilleur ami.<\/p>\n<p>Bref, amis catholiques mari\u00e9s et fid\u00e8les ou c\u00e9libataires et continents, vous n&rsquo;\u00eates pas demisexuels<span class=\"footnote_referrer\"><a role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" onclick=\"footnote_moveToReference_833_1('footnote_plugin_reference_833_1_3');\" onkeypress=\"footnote_moveToReference_833_1('footnote_plugin_reference_833_1_3');\" ><sup id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_833_1_3\" class=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text\">[3]<\/sup><\/a><span id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_833_1_3\" class=\"footnote_tooltip\">ou peut-\u00eatre l&rsquo;\u00eates vous, mais \u00e7a regarde vous, l&rsquo;objet de votre affection et \u00e9ventuellement votre psy<\/span><\/span><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> jQuery('#footnote_plugin_tooltip_833_1_3').tooltip({ tip: '#footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_833_1_3', tipClass: 'footnote_tooltip', effect: 'fade', predelay: 0, fadeInSpeed: 200, delay: 400, fadeOutSpeed: 200, position: 'top center', relative: true, offset: [-7, 0], });<\/script>, vous \u00eates chastes, et \u00e7a n&rsquo;est pas du tout la m\u00eame chose&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"speaker-mute footnotes_reference_container\"> <div class=\"footnote_container_prepare\"><p><span role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" class=\"footnote_reference_container_label pointer\" onclick=\"footnote_expand_collapse_reference_container_833_1();\">References<\/span><span role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" class=\"footnote_reference_container_collapse_button\" style=\"display: none;\" onclick=\"footnote_expand_collapse_reference_container_833_1();\">[<a id=\"footnote_reference_container_collapse_button_833_1\">+<\/a>]<\/span><\/p><\/div> <div id=\"footnote_references_container_833_1\" style=\"\"><table class=\"footnotes_table footnote-reference-container\"><caption class=\"accessibility\">References<\/caption> <tbody> \r\n\r\n<tr class=\"footnotes_plugin_reference_row\"> <th scope=\"row\" class=\"footnote_plugin_index_combi pointer\"  onclick=\"footnote_moveToAnchor_833_1('footnote_plugin_tooltip_833_1_1');\"><a id=\"footnote_plugin_reference_833_1_1\" class=\"footnote_backlink\"><span class=\"footnote_index_arrow\">&#8593;<\/span>1<\/a><\/th> <td class=\"footnote_plugin_text\">oui, le pluriel est signifiant, \u00e7a s&rsquo;applique aussi bien \u00e0 l&rsquo;heterosexualit\u00e9 qu&rsquo;\u00e0 l&rsquo;homosexualit\u00e9, la sapiosexualit\u00e9, l&rsquo;asexualit\u00e9 ou whatever&#8230;<\/td><\/tr>\r\n\r\n<tr class=\"footnotes_plugin_reference_row\"> <th scope=\"row\" class=\"footnote_plugin_index_combi pointer\"  onclick=\"footnote_moveToAnchor_833_1('footnote_plugin_tooltip_833_1_2');\"><a id=\"footnote_plugin_reference_833_1_2\" class=\"footnote_backlink\"><span class=\"footnote_index_arrow\">&#8593;<\/span>2<\/a><\/th> <td class=\"footnote_plugin_text\">remplacez ces noms par vos fantasmes inavou\u00e9s \u00e0 titre d&rsquo;exercice<\/td><\/tr>\r\n\r\n<tr class=\"footnotes_plugin_reference_row\"> <th scope=\"row\" class=\"footnote_plugin_index_combi pointer\"  onclick=\"footnote_moveToAnchor_833_1('footnote_plugin_tooltip_833_1_3');\"><a id=\"footnote_plugin_reference_833_1_3\" class=\"footnote_backlink\"><span class=\"footnote_index_arrow\">&#8593;<\/span>3<\/a><\/th> <td class=\"footnote_plugin_text\">ou peut-\u00eatre l&rsquo;\u00eates vous, mais \u00e7a regarde vous, l&rsquo;objet de votre affection et \u00e9ventuellement votre psy<\/td><\/tr>\r\n\r\n <\/tbody> <\/table> <\/div><\/div><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> function footnote_expand_reference_container_833_1() { jQuery('#footnote_references_container_833_1').show(); 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