{"id":831,"date":"2017-06-26T21:45:20","date_gmt":"2017-06-26T20:45:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/skro.hellabeth.com\/?p=831"},"modified":"2017-06-26T21:45:20","modified_gmt":"2017-06-26T20:45:20","slug":"etiquette-en-plus-et-case-en-moins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/skro.hellabeth.com\/?p=831","title":{"rendered":"Etiquette en plus et case en moins"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Petit billet rapide, inspir\u00e9 par la lecture en diagonale d&rsquo;un plus long billet sur les \u00e9tiquettes, l&rsquo;appartenance, tout \u00e7a, partag\u00e9 par des zamis des zinternets&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>De ce que j&rsquo;en ai retenu (la lecture dans le train sur un mini-\u00e9cran ne poussant pas vraiment \u00e0 la concentration<span class=\"footnote_referrer\"><a role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" onclick=\"footnote_moveToReference_831_1('footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_1');\" onkeypress=\"footnote_moveToReference_831_1('footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_1');\" ><sup id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_1\" class=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text\">[1]<\/sup><\/a><span id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_831_1_1\" class=\"footnote_tooltip\">il va vraiment falloir que je me retrimbale avec un truc plus gros pour lire\/\u00e9crire des textes dans les transports<\/span><\/span><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> jQuery('#footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_1').tooltip({ tip: '#footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_831_1_1', tipClass: 'footnote_tooltip', effect: 'fade', predelay: 0, fadeInSpeed: 200, delay: 400, fadeOutSpeed: 200, position: 'top center', relative: true, offset: [-7, 0], });<\/script>, je m&rsquo;excuse d&rsquo;avance des faux-sens et autres d\u00e9formations de pens\u00e9e que j&rsquo;aurais pu faire), la signataire du billet racontait sa difficile vie de personne ne se reconnaissant pas dans les diff\u00e9rentes \u00e9tiquettes que l&rsquo;on voulait lui coller ou qu&rsquo;on lui proposait.<\/p>\n<p>Dans mon cas, c&rsquo;est carr\u00e9ment l&rsquo;inverse. Je peux collectionner les \u00e9tiquettes et je ne leur colle pas trop mal. Le seul souci, c&rsquo;est qu&rsquo;elles sont g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement plut\u00f4t \u00e9clectiques et que si elles \u00e9taient r\u00e9elles, je ressemblerais certainement \u00e0 une pub pour une agence de voyage, \u00e0 l&rsquo;arri\u00e8re d&rsquo;une caravane n\u00e9erlandaise ou au dos d&rsquo;une chemise de Scout De France<span class=\"footnote_referrer\"><a role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" onclick=\"footnote_moveToReference_831_1('footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_2');\" onkeypress=\"footnote_moveToReference_831_1('footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_2');\" ><sup id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_2\" class=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text\">[2]<\/sup><\/a><span id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_831_1_2\" class=\"footnote_tooltip\">coucou Fran\u00e7ois et al. :D<\/span><\/span><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> jQuery('#footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_2').tooltip({ tip: '#footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_831_1_2', tipClass: 'footnote_tooltip', effect: 'fade', predelay: 0, fadeInSpeed: 200, delay: 400, fadeOutSpeed: 200, position: 'top center', relative: true, offset: [-7, 0], });<\/script>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Pour compliquer les choses, je pioche un peu dans tous les coins. M\u00e2le H\u00e9t\u00e9ro Cis Blanc(tm) (et monogame par dessus le march\u00e9) , p\u00e8re de famille et joueur de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=MwiCLnlJeco\">meuporgue<\/a>, r\u00f4liste et joueur de rugby<span class=\"footnote_referrer\"><a role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" onclick=\"footnote_moveToReference_831_1('footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_3');\" onkeypress=\"footnote_moveToReference_831_1('footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_3');\" ><sup id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_3\" class=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text\">[3]<\/sup><\/a><span id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_831_1_3\" class=\"footnote_tooltip\">la variante o\u00f9 on risque juste les ruptures de tendons<\/span><\/span><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> jQuery('#footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_3').tooltip({ tip: '#footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_831_1_3', tipClass: 'footnote_tooltip', effect: 'fade', predelay: 0, fadeInSpeed: 200, delay: 400, fadeOutSpeed: 200, position: 'top center', relative: true, offset: [-7, 0], });<\/script>, metallophile \u00e0 cheveux courts&#8230; Et c&rsquo;est l\u00e0 que l&rsquo;on comprend o\u00f9 le n\u0153ud du probl\u00e8me va se situer.<\/p>\n<p>Le probl\u00e8me en fait n&rsquo;est pas tant les \u00e9tiquettes que l&rsquo;on peut avoir et qui peuvent coller de fa\u00e7on parfaite ou presque \u00e0 l&rsquo;une des facettes de la personnalit\u00e9, c&rsquo;est lorsque l&rsquo;on veut faire de ces \u00e9tiquettes des cases. Parce que si les \u00e9tiquettes (ou les non-\u00e9tiquettes, d&rsquo;ailleurs) permettent de nous d\u00e9finir, au moins en partie, elles ne peuvent pas (et ne devraient pas) \u00eatre le seul prisme de compr\u00e9hension d&rsquo;une personne. Parce que nous ne sommes pas monolithiques, que nous ne pouvons g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement pas entrer int\u00e9gralement dans telle ou telle cat\u00e9gorie, et que les g\u00e9n\u00e9ralisations sur tel ou tel groupe de personne (qu&rsquo;il s&rsquo;agisse des rugbymen<span class=\"footnote_referrer\"><a role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" onclick=\"footnote_moveToReference_831_1('footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_4');\" onkeypress=\"footnote_moveToReference_831_1('footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_4');\" ><sup id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_4\" class=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text\">[4]<\/sup><\/a><span id=\"footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_831_1_4\" class=\"footnote_tooltip\">et women &#8211; je rappelle que je joue dans une \u00e9quipe mixte, avec comp\u00e9tition officielle<\/span><\/span><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> jQuery('#footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_4').tooltip({ tip: '#footnote_plugin_tooltip_text_831_1_4', tipClass: 'footnote_tooltip', effect: 'fade', predelay: 0, fadeInSpeed: 200, delay: 400, fadeOutSpeed: 200, position: 'top center', relative: true, offset: [-7, 0], });<\/script>, des r\u00f4listes, ou des MHCB(tm) ) et\/ou son opposition dialectique avec tel autre groupe sont souvent nulles et non avenues.<\/p>\n<p>Les \u00e9tiquettes nous permettent de montrer nos ressemblances, les cases sont l\u00e0 pour exciter nos diff\u00e9rences. Alors continuons notre collection d&rsquo;images Panini plut\u00f4t que de rester enferm\u00e9s dans nos bo\u00eetes&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"speaker-mute footnotes_reference_container\"> <div class=\"footnote_container_prepare\"><p><span role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" class=\"footnote_reference_container_label pointer\" onclick=\"footnote_expand_collapse_reference_container_831_1();\">References<\/span><span role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" class=\"footnote_reference_container_collapse_button\" style=\"display: none;\" onclick=\"footnote_expand_collapse_reference_container_831_1();\">[<a id=\"footnote_reference_container_collapse_button_831_1\">+<\/a>]<\/span><\/p><\/div> <div id=\"footnote_references_container_831_1\" style=\"\"><table class=\"footnotes_table footnote-reference-container\"><caption class=\"accessibility\">References<\/caption> <tbody> \r\n\r\n<tr class=\"footnotes_plugin_reference_row\"> <th scope=\"row\" class=\"footnote_plugin_index_combi pointer\"  onclick=\"footnote_moveToAnchor_831_1('footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_1');\"><a id=\"footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_1\" class=\"footnote_backlink\"><span class=\"footnote_index_arrow\">&#8593;<\/span>1<\/a><\/th> <td class=\"footnote_plugin_text\">il va vraiment falloir que je me retrimbale avec un truc plus gros pour lire\/\u00e9crire des textes dans les transports<\/td><\/tr>\r\n\r\n<tr class=\"footnotes_plugin_reference_row\"> <th scope=\"row\" class=\"footnote_plugin_index_combi pointer\"  onclick=\"footnote_moveToAnchor_831_1('footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_2');\"><a id=\"footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_2\" class=\"footnote_backlink\"><span class=\"footnote_index_arrow\">&#8593;<\/span>2<\/a><\/th> <td class=\"footnote_plugin_text\">coucou Fran\u00e7ois et al. :D<\/td><\/tr>\r\n\r\n<tr class=\"footnotes_plugin_reference_row\"> <th scope=\"row\" class=\"footnote_plugin_index_combi pointer\"  onclick=\"footnote_moveToAnchor_831_1('footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_3');\"><a id=\"footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_3\" class=\"footnote_backlink\"><span class=\"footnote_index_arrow\">&#8593;<\/span>3<\/a><\/th> <td class=\"footnote_plugin_text\">la variante o\u00f9 on risque juste les ruptures de tendons<\/td><\/tr>\r\n\r\n<tr class=\"footnotes_plugin_reference_row\"> <th scope=\"row\" class=\"footnote_plugin_index_combi pointer\"  onclick=\"footnote_moveToAnchor_831_1('footnote_plugin_tooltip_831_1_4');\"><a id=\"footnote_plugin_reference_831_1_4\" class=\"footnote_backlink\"><span class=\"footnote_index_arrow\">&#8593;<\/span>4<\/a><\/th> <td class=\"footnote_plugin_text\">et women &#8211; 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